Last minute... Thursday evening..I loaded up my kids and dog and headed north. My mom's best gal was turning 50 and we just needed a debbie-bubba fix really bad. We cooked, cleaned, celebrated 50 years of life, rough housed with cousins and caught up with my sisters. There's no feeling like being with your mom when you are a mom. I feel so relaxed and comfortable. It's truly the only time I feel like I don't have to be "everything to everyone". The mattress is still worse than any one I have ever slept on or would ever sleep on unless I got to wake up with that feeling that only being home can bring.